10 Steps To Be More Assertive

Assertion is standing up for ourselves in such a way that we also respect the rights of others. It may not guarantee good behaviour in others, but it is the only possible starting point in a constructive exchange. This is definitely NOT the correct starting point for an assertive exchange […]

How Assertive Are You?

Are you aware of how you appear to other people? Are there some situations (or people) that bring out the worst in you? Are there times when you know that if you had behaved differently you might have achieved a better outcome? This blog will help you identify your personal […]

How To Be Fair In A Grievance Meeting

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This article explodes the most common mistake around chairing a grievance meeting and takes you through the steps of how to structure the meeting to ensure fairness AND the likelihood of a good end result for all concerned. CONTENT The common mistake that managers make The skills you will need […]

HOW TO GIVE FEEDBACK (entirely the wrong phrase)

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This article explodes the most common mistake around “feedback” and takes you through the 8 steps of how to structure the conversation to enable lasting results. CONTENT The common mistake that managers make The strategy for getting it right The “How To” checklist Other useful resources  The common mistake that […]

How To Coach To Change Behaviour – 6 great questions to use

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As managers we sometimes have very good employees, with great knowledge and skills, who just rub everyone else up the wrong way; or choose the wrong place or time to say things; or say the wrong things to the wrong people. In this guide we will give you 6  great […]

How To Manage A Negative Employee – the 10 key steps

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Every organisation has at least one negative person, who drains the life out of us all with their constant sniping or whingeing. OK maybe not everyone is enthusiastic about all aspects of their work or recent changes, but this one person is tipping the balance and dragging the atmosphere down,  […]

What Every Manager Ought To Know About Giving Feedback

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For a start “feedback” is entirely the wrong word. This article captures what smart managers have learned in the past and you can easily practice.  You will learn how to avoid making the most common mistakes and how to use the ‘wide frame’ approach for a more constructive and positive […]

The 6 Steps Of A Basic Coaching Conversation … and why most managers forget number 2

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I have coached many managers who have been in the organisations a long time but their boss has got to the end of his/her tether with them. Problems in the way they behave have finally got too much to bear, senior leaders have a low opinion of them, their staff […]

Elconsulting partners with leading learning technologies consultancy

elconsulting has announced the appointment of Learning Light, the Sheffield based e-learning and learning technologies consultancy, to showcase the eltalking platform consisting of 20 scenario-based streamed film clips around the subject of ‘difficult conversations’ with employees. The platform streams to PC, Laptop, Tablet or Smartphone. Downloadable checklists and resources provide […]